Monday, November 30, 2009

How do I tell my guy friend how I feel about our relationship?

I met this guy about 5 months ago and now I'm starting to get really strong feelings towards him. Recently his car broke down so every Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday I take him to work and pick him up as well. I also take him to various places around town since he presently doesn't have a car and I helped him get on at his present job. Whenever he's in a crappy mood, he calls me in hopes that I can enlighten his situation. He isn't quiet using me because he's always there for me when I need him in return. Here comes the problem. I was looking at his Myspace page and I notice I am not on his top ten Myspace hottest friends list. On top of that, I'm not even on his top 20 friend list. I'm actually on page 24 out of 31. When I saw all of the girls on his top 10 hottest girls, it kind of hurt considering I'm the girl that does so much for him but I don't get any recognition. It's the same on his facebook page. No mentioning of me anywhere. Should I ask where I stand in his life since I am the only girl that does so much for him?



How do I tell my guy friend how I feel about our relationship?

First, you will never know if you don't ask, how can you possibly regret it? You could be friends with him forever and have that feeling of wanting more the entire time and that would be better right? Second, where you are on a myspace page should never control your life. Look at that 13 year old that commited suicide over what people said to her on myspace. Myspace is not how life works...Life isn't a running poll of your top friends being moved from tier to tier when you have nothing else to do. Don't let Myspace or even this guy define you. You sound like YOU are well worth all the fuss you are giving this guy and hopefully he can see that, if not, move on because someone else will, I promise.



How do I tell my guy friend how I feel about our relationship?

wow that is so lame... you care where you rank on someone's myspace? get a life and act like an adult if you want an adult relationship



How do I tell my guy friend how I feel about our relationship?

Ok well myspace top friends are jut stupid. Dont get caught up in it. really he might just have them people in his top cuz hes in theres. And when you click on next page on friends, theres no in order. Only the top friends are the top friends. Not random people on his list.



And i think you should maybe ask him wher eyou stand in his life. Just lay it on him easy. not something like "how do you feel about me" cuz that might scare him.



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How do I tell my guy friend how I feel about our relationship?

Never make anyone a priority when they consider you to be optional.

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