Thursday, December 3, 2009

Do you think something is going on? HELP!!?

Last weekend me %26amp; my b/f were sitting at the house %26amp; one of his girl friends came up crying (at 11:00pm) so he put his shoes on %26amp; said he would be back later. She never came in the house. He didn't come back until 2:25am. %26amp; told me that him, her %26amp; one of her friends from outta state went out to get a drink then they went back to her house %26amp; sat down %26amp; told to her husband cause they were having prombles. Then I got on her myspace page %26amp; saw pics. of the three of them in the car drinking %26amp; having fun. Then he got a new phone three days ago %26amp; one of his "g/f" called last night at 10:00pm wanting him to go out to eat with her!! WTF! Oh yeah, we found out a few weeks ago we are going to have a child. He was happy at first now he's saying that maybe we should wait! But to top it all off he SAID the all these girls know about me %26amp; that we are having a baby. But I find that hard to beleive. What do I do?



Do you think something is going on? HELP!!?

Well i would say be honest with yourself..i mean he lied about about the drink thing. the thing about the child sometimes people are scared but on the bright side ALL HIS GIRLS KNOWS ABOUT YOU so he's not really hidding anything.



Do you think something is going on? HELP!!?

he is no longer interested in you because you don't give him head anymore - its your own fault for pushing him away



Do you think something is going on? HELP!!?

Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it to.He wants to be with you,but he wants to be able to go out with other women as well.Honestly,you are pregnant it's time to start being mature and responsible.You are not only responsible for yourself but another human life.I would tell him that he needs to either settle down and realise he's going to be a father and have a serious talk with him or leave.If he would choose to leave with you pregnant,i would be glad that i found out sooner rather than later.A child is hard to raise,on your own,but there are millions of women who are single mothers in todays world.They go on and become great things.Don't give up.If you can't talk to him,or you don't trust him,you also don't have much of a relationship.Trust and communication are two main components in a relationship.Without it you really don't have a healthy relationship.Either way,there is a baby at hand and you need to make sure you are being responsible for this child.You both need to work it out,whether you are together or not,so that both of you are in the child's life and responsible for this baby.Best Wishes!!Hope everything works out!

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