I want him back!?

This guy, who use to be my bestfriend, is now.. uhh like "moving away." He doesn't really talk to me anymore. I was like his second friend on myspace, then he took me all of the way off. I asked him why, he said he couldn't tell me. He has this new girlfriend, she doesn't really like me. So I think she told him to stop taling to him. I brought it up that he took me off his top a few days ago, he he would put me back on. He did, but I am dead last. I asked him again why he took me off, he said "I can't tell you!" Then I said, "you CAN'T tell me? or you just don't want to?" he said, "I CAN'T!!"

He use to be my bestfriend. I miss him.

What should I do?

Just try to move on, he doesn't want me in his life.

Or talk to him?

What do I say?

I love him, he is still me bestfriend, but I guess I am not his.

Help me out here please!

10 points to the best answer!

No mean answers either please!

I want him back!?

Oh, I've had this happen!! Makes u feel like crap too.

My friend - we used to date even - and we were really close after we broke up. But then the guy got a girlfriend and he wouldn't talk to me or hardly anything because of her. A year or so later they broke up, he started talking to me again. He said that she was just jealous of me, even though we didn't feel anything for each other, she thought of me as a threat to their relationship. But now he says that he's sorry and that he won't let another girl do that to him - says she was the worst thing that has happened to him. So we're buds again. I'm not mad at him, I totally understand his situation. If I wanted to be his girlfriend then I would probably be so mad about the whole deal - but I don't like him that way.

So I guess just go on with your life for now and maybe he will come around someday and maybe he won't. Either way he doesn't want to hurt you or he would've told you "why" - right? Just let him go his way, talk to him if you see him or just nod. She won't keep him under her spell for long.... not even Brittney Spears can do that. ;) Good luck!

I want him back!?

Give it time.. he'll come around (and if he doesn't then you didn't need him anyways). I feel for you. Maybe it will be like a gift for the holidays that they'll end things and you can have ur friend back! :D Let me know, cause it sounds hopefull! Report It

I want him back!?

Have a one to one conversation with him, and tell him how you feel, and what he means to you. If he still acts like an idiot, then he isn't worth your time.

I want him back!?

For now I would suggest you semi move on, focus on some thing else and just be there for him when they break up, which they will do some day, I should know I was him at one time and I am just now getting back in touch with old friends, after a 7 year relationship 5 being married.

If he contacts you be there for him and don't judge him, just be supportive she sounds like she will be trouble for him and he may be hurt a lot in the future.

but he really should stop talking to himself... ("So I think she told him to stop taling to him") lol sorry I couldn't help it!

Cheers!

I want him back!?

well...i think you should talk to him about it and share how you feel about it with him. he will probably realize that what he did was wrong . personally i think that if one person is controlling the other one in a relationship they shouldnt be together.

I want him back!?

i think that you love him and you want him to be closer to you you have feelings for him and i think its bad if you dont know him personally but if you do , you should tell him what you feel because you dont want to keep it to yourself just let your feelings out and see what he says

I want him back!?

you know what? almost same story with me...dont force your bestfriend to love you when the feeling is not the same...the more you hurt...forget everything and let go...accept reality that you fall on the wrong guy...start a life without your bestfriend...try to make new friends.. go out with casual friends, attend parties where you can meet new friends...in this way you will realized his not that worth to you...friends come and go but the real one will stay...

dont easily fall in love to a guy though he show affection or caring ways to you...it might be a trap in the end...same experienced will happen...

I want him back!?

just try not to make it a big deal .. and if he doesnt want to be ur friend anymore then thatsjust how it has to work. he may come around and say im sorry and then tell u everything. hes probly just really likes this girl hes with and shes telling him things... just waitt a while and see if they break up and if they do then you both will most likely be best friends again. i know girls who are insucure get jelous of thier boyfriends friends and best friends. (especially if they are other girls and he spends alot of time with them) hope i could help. good luck.