Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

Ok so about a year ago I met this woman who was pregnant she worked at wendy's we talked laughed and had a good time for like 10 or 15 mins then I left and ate. I ran into her on friday of last week at wendys again no longer pregnant of course she remembered me I remembered her we talk laughed for a little bit then I left. Then tuesday I went back and saw her again we talked she mentioned she was a single mother which I knew she had a kid just not single. I asked he if she wanted to go out sometime i gave her my number and myspace. She added me on wensday night and I'm already in her top friend list. Now I e-mail her told her I liked her and would like to go out with her some time in the near future and to let me know when she want's to do it. She sent me a thing back saying that she just wanted to talk online for a little while and take things from there. We texted all day long thursday and at the end of the day she asked me if I wanted to go for a drink with her told her I wasn't

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

Yikes, take it slow. It sounds like she doesn't want to be hurt and that she is looking out for her child. If I was a single mother I would be doubly careful about who I date and eventually take home. I'd want to be a good role model and not a revolving door that various men walk thorough.... children pick up on that stuff and could end up doing the same.... If you really like her don't be in a rush, she'll guide you "in" when she's ready....

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It is a long process. Tell her about your job. Let her know that you travel quite a bit. Then go and do what you need to do for your job. I'm sure she has a phone, you can call %26amp; text her while you are gone. Once you are back it'll be even nicer to see her and vice versa. I don't recommend you put your life on hold waiting for her. She needs to know what to expect of your work routine if you are to have a relationship that works. I think if you let things progress as they are while NOT putting the rest of your life on hold will work out better for you both in the long run....

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

wow thats a long storyy. =]

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

Yikes.

Shes too complicated for me to even answer this.

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

DANG! cood that have been any longer?!

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

single mother=zero, flee, quickly, plenty of other women without the screaming brat to interfere. run man don't look back, run I said!

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

She's a single mom... She's taking it slow because obviously she kinda got screwed over before (in more ways than one). She just had a baby. Let her take it slow. She just wants to make sure it's right and that you're going to stay around and not get her pregnant then leave her as a second time single mom. It's not the same for single mom's to "just date". They aren't only thinking of themselves anymore. They have another one to consider too.

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

She just had a child and may be afraid of getting caught up in a situation she isn't ready for. So if you really like her slow down and get to know each other.

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

She probally likes you but I don't think she wants to rush into something, because she does have a kid and all, and I think she wants whats best.

Get to know her and talk to her, tell her you want to meet her child and that maybe you can take him/her to a park to get to know him/her or something so you let her know that you don't just wanna get laid. (hopefully)

Be yourself you seem like a good guy, considering you aren't in the drinking seen. Get to know her a bit more, I'm sure she will appreciate it.

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

WOW thats is long .. I started to drift off at some point. So, I could be wrong with what I am about to say..

My guess is that she could have been hurt from her last relationship. ( guessing that the father of the child is not really in the picture) She probably just wants to take things slow and is probably a little afraid of getting to involved. She could be feeling you out as well making sure your not just asking her out out of some kind of pity. If you are into her just take it slow and really get to know her. It sounds like you have only meet a few times before anyway.

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

If you really like her, then keep seeing her. Getting to know her better... spending more time with her....even meeting her child. I dont see what the problem is. She wants to take it a little bit slow probably because she has had some bad experiences in the past because things went too quickly. just respect that and she'll respect you.

Good luck!

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

I think you need to just give her some space and don't rush into it right now. She is being honest about how she feels and telling you she wants to wait. If you are serious about pursuing a relationship with her, then wait and see what develops. Set a time limit though because you don't want to be waiting around forever. Your young and make alot of money. Women will come to you even if most of them say money doesn't matter. Good luck and I hope it works out for you. Peace.

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

Give her time.Sounds like you are wanting to just jump right in and get married.She needs time to get to know you.If you seem too "needy" it will push her away.She is just being cautious and doesn't want to jump right in %26amp; end up doing the same thing she did before.

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

Relax. Relax. Relax.

Accept what she has to offer at the moment.

Realize that being a single parent is quite difficult.

Be nice, not pushy. If her car breaks down, offer to pay for the repairs.

Sounds like she likes you, but may have a problem with a) your age, or b) with men in general because the father of her child isn't around.

Those can be overcome with time and familiarity.

Best wishes.

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Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

maybe you should try repeat the question with a shorter version then we can help, i kinda got lost in the flow....so rephrase the question and dont give a story

Women are to confusing how should I approach this?

i did not read it all ---- from what i gather you both had a good time so why try to classify everything --- ask her out again --- go somewhere nice and just talk or go out during the day --- sightsee shop do things you would not do on a "date" --- i would suspect she is cautious --- she just got dumped with a permanent reminder in her child so she wants to take it slow and see how things develop --- who care what you call the relationship??? it does not need labels all it needs is two people that have fun together and in time care for each other